Baby Food Photo Tutorial

Last month my littlest one was 6 months old. In our house that means time for baby food and big messes. Oh, how I am going to miss having a dog with #4 baby. My dog was great for cleaning up all kinds of baby messes, even jumping up to get into the nooks and crannies of the highchair. I miss that Khaki dog. Somehow, using the Swiffer is just not the same.

At one time of another each of the big kids have helped me make baby food for their siblings. The main reason I make baby food is cost. Those little jars are expensive. I do buy some jars to have on hand for travel, so we have a plenty of choices. Some of the easiest foods to make are sweet potatoes, apples, pears, winter squashes, and broccoli. The simplest foods to serve are bananas and avocado which just require a little mashing straight out of the peel. Those last two are great foods to start with tiny chunks since they are mushy when really ripe. I love this stage in life and really enjoy introducing new things to our babies. (This goes back to teaching kids to eat everything at a early age.) You should use common sense and introduce one thing at a time to watch for allergic reactions especially if they run in your family. Once you get going it is great fun to see their enjoyment of all kinds of foods. I recently gave the baby couscous, hummus, pumpkin straight out of the can and eggplant dip.

So how do you turn this...


into this?



It takes a little of this...

Making baby food is pretty easy, not as easy as buying it from the store, but it's definitely a WHOLE lot cheaper. It also becomes a lesson in serving others as my big kids each made baby food for their baby siblings. For the first two kids I did this all in the food processor, which is great, but you can only do small batches at a time. See there is this "max liquid level" mark on the side of the processor, which I figured was a suggestion, a guide, something along the lines of . Boy was I wrong! This is one of those warnings that actually means what it says. If you fill your food processor with anything liquid-y you are gonna have a mess! The goop will come down the middle whole and seep all over the processor base creating a lovely disaster to clean up. Incidentally this is why I went to an immersion blender to make soups.

When I was pregnant with kid #3 I decided to get a food mill. Perfect for making homemade applesauce, tomato sauce and...you guessed it, baby food. This little beauty grinds everything down to a smooth or pulpy sauce, depending on what set of holes you use. With this thing you can put in the peels and all instead of sliding them off the hot fruit or veggies. And the chickens went CRAZY with the solids leftover (composting would also be great). They were chasing each other around for the choice pieces of mash!

First you start with cooking the food. After you have boiled or steamed in the microwave or on the stovetop, save some of the leftover water. You can use this "sterilized" water to add to your solids to make them more watery and easier for baby. You can always thicken baby food (this goes for jarred too) with baby cereals when they are ready for thicker.

After your vegetable or fruit is cooked, you put it the food mill and give it a whirl until you get the "mash" below in a bowl. OR you put it through the food processor, paying careful attention to that maximum liquid fill line.

If you need to add a little of the cooking water to the bowl, this is when you do it. Then carefully pour the mash into ice cube trays, which you can get at the dollar store. Pop this babies into the freezer until they are rock hard (overnight is easiest).

Then twist the cubes out into ziplock freezer bags or a Vac n Seal bag for longer term storage. The great thing about doing the cubes, is being able to take out and defrost just what you need. Be sure to write on the bag what food it is and when you made it since apples look like pears and peaches look like sweet potatoes.

Here are the steps reviewed in photos with sweet potatoes. Cook it...

Mash it.

Pour it.

Freeze it.

Store it. (Can you tell I just read "Snug House Bug House" tonight?)

Save yourself some money and make a few of the easiest foods. Before you know it your little darling will be eating pureed roasted beets with lentils beans too! See my previous post on baby food for a great book with a helpful chart on when to introduce which foods.

Baby Love: Custom DIY Car Seat Cover

{This post is a continuation of the series titled Baby Love. If you came for the food, I'll be back to that in February.}

People often ask me about this carseat cover. Our firstborn is a boy. When I found out our second child was a girl, I didn't want to purchase another carseat, but I did want to "glam it up" a little from the original Graco Snugride Infant seat cover.



The Original Carseat Cover Pattern

I looked online for carseat covers and promptly passed out from sticker shock! Wow, those things are expensive, like two hundred dollars expensive! I knew I could make some MUCH cheaper, even if it wasn't as fancy as what I saw online. My incredibly talented Mom agreed to come over and help so I wasn't completely on my own.

Turned out this project was really easy and even with my entry level sewing skills I was able to make something that looks really nice. I started out by taking the carseat to a fabric store. I picked out a pattern that would go with the hood because I wasn't going to recover that. I also knew I needed a heavier weight fabric since it would be subject to a lot of use. Lastly, it had to be washable because babies leak out of all kinds of places. I picked the satiny butterfly fabric that worked really well, except if anything with velcro got attached to it like a bib, then it pulled the fabric. Even still, it was a great choice. For #3 child I made another cover in this cute dino pattern.



Dinosaur Pattern Cover

Sewing a Car Seat Decorative Cover

Lay the fabric in the seat to figure out how much fabric you need to buy (yes, very scientific). Be sure to account for a seam allowance (the part you are going to fold over and sew on the edge). Make sure you cover all of the old carseat cover when you are measuring because you are going to leave that on underneath the new cover you are making. Yours is only cosmetic, the original is still needed for padding. 



the original cover stays underneath your custom cover



be sure you don't cover the seat release for the base

At home lay the fabric in the carseat again and cut away any huge excess that hangs way over, err on the side of leaving too much if you are unsure. After you have the rough shape, lay it flat and cut the whole thing more or less symmetrical. Then fold over a small edge (1/4 of an inch) and iron it to hold the fold in place. Fold that edge over again to make a larger seam, about 1 1/2 inches deep to make a casement (a long pocket). This fold needs to be pinned in place and ironed. Put the cover back in the carseat to make sure everything fits, then sew the seam, starting and ending in the bottom middle of the cover (right where your darling baby's little legs rest). You must leave this opening so you can thread elastic through to get the cover to stay on with elastic. 



tie the elastic into a knot

Using 1/2" wide flat elastic, put a safety pin in one end to aid in threading it through. Just kept working the pin through the seam pocket around the perimeter of the cover. Kind of like when you lose the string on a pair of sweatpants.

After it is all threaded put the cover on the carseat again so you could mark the places to make holes for the straps. Be sure to smooth the fabric and fold it over where there is excess. Using a fabric pencil or washable marker, mark where each of the holes are for the five point harness to come through. That means you are making a minimum of 5 marks. Two where the straps come over the shoulders, two where the straps enter back through the seat near the bottom and one for the strap between their legs. I also had to make a hole where the adjustment strap comes out to tighten and loosen the harness. After you mark these, actually measure the real holes in the original cover so you are sure to make them long enough. You don't want anything impeding the safety of the seat.



button hole for straps to come through

To make the holes, you need to use a button hole feature on your sewing machine. I had never done this and had to read the direction that came with my machine. It was actually really easy and the machine does the work. After you create your "button" aka strap holes, you cut them open. Then you are ready to actually put the cover on. Once you get all the straps threaded through you need to tighten the elastic so the cover stays in place. Just tie it at the bottom and tuck the extra under the cover, making it easy to take off if you need to.



underside of carseat with elastic showing



tuck the elastic under the cover to hide it

And there you have it - a brand new look for your precious cargo!

Baby Love: Parenting Books

There are some wonderful books on parenting out there. The "What to Expect" series has great info for pregnancy and beyond. Say Goodbye to Whining, Complaining, and Bad Attitudes..in You and Your Kids is great for tips on getting through the bad stuff. Parenting is Heart Work and Bringing Up Boys (and now Girls) are fantastic general parenting books. Out of the Spin Cycle: Devotions to Lighten your Mother Load is one of those "keeping it real" kind of books about the struggles moms go through. I loved this passage quoted from the book.

SAHM

aka Sleepy Anxious Hysterical Mom

When Brandon and I started a family, my heart's desire was to stay home. However, since we were making obscene piles of cash, what with my teacher's salary and his youth pastor's check (sarcasm intended), I wasn't able to stay home until my second child, my daughter, was born. Thus I began a new life with an infant and a two-year old. . . all day.

Seeing how I'd begged for this and cried real tears over it, you'd think I'd be somewhat immune to the "downside" of being an SAHM. But you would be wrong. I was unprepared for the exhaustion, the drain of emotional energy, and the constancy of it all; when Brandon asked about my day once, I snapped, "Oh, me? I set limits and enforced discipline all day long. It was awesome. You?"

In my mind, Brandon was off at his fancy job, eating at restaurants, laughing casually, and kicking his feet up on his desk (he's never done the last one, but it fit with my imagined scenario). He did whatever he wanted while I was neck-deep in diapers and tantrums. I slipped into a pit of resentment in record time, keeping tally of the zillion tasks I completed with no acknowledgment.

I told Brandon once: "Do you know that I am literally keeping all these children alive? If I was not on this planet, they'd all be un-immunized, starved anarchists with overgrown fingernails who would never have haircuts or gifts for birthday parties!"

I'm sure he couldn't wait to get home every day.

As I was wallowing in self-pity, Brandon popped the imaginary bubble I'd constructed around his perfect life of freedom. He said, "Here's my side of the story. While I'm stuck in pointless meetings with imbeciles, I'm thinking of you watching the kids learn to walk, which I'm missing. While I'm filling out paperwork, getting chewed out by disgruntled parents and paying invoices, I'm wishing I was you - liberated fro the professional grind, spending time with your friends, singing our kids to sleep for naps. My career is not the picnic you've envisioned, but my solace is that I am giving our kids the gift of their mom."

Pffheeeeeeew (air out of bubble).

[Jesus said,] "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 7:12

I withheld from Brandon the very things I wanted from him: respect, acknowledgement and gratitude. If I wanted him to notice my efforts at home, I should've started by saying, "Thanks for working so hard today." If I was hoping to receive some credit for b ringing three kids to the pediatrician for shots by myself, maybe a better place to start was, "I'm really grateful for all you do for our family."

We can't expect star treatment from our husbands without doling it out liberally ourselves. To do so is horribly unfair. We aren't competing for the prize of "who works hardest." We work differently; both tasks require gargantuan effort, and we each need the labor of the other. We are a team. It's not a contest or a war; we are on the same side.

For a season, Brandon raised the money while I raised the kids. Or course, he parented too, but while he was at the office, I was in mine - a mobile office that included parks, doctors' offices, Little Gym, the backyard, my overstuffed chair in the playroom, the library, Chick-Fil-A, the swimming pool, the kitchen, friends' houses, and the snow cone stand.

Girls, reframe the way you think about your husband's job and the time and energy it requires. He's not slamming back a scotch and water at 11am in order to make his noon tee time. He's laboring too, keeping a roof over your babies' heads and supplying the funds for their organic baby food. I know he's never clipped their fingernails once, but you haven't filled out his expense reports either. Treat him like you'd love to be treated - with appreciation, thankfulness, and compassion.

"This sums up the Law of the Prophets."

Baby Love: Sign Language

Babies...so cute and sometimes so frustrating. As a new mom I was always worried about my baby's comfort. How do I know if he's hot or hungry or sick of sitting in a wet diaper? One of the smartest things we ever did was teach each of our kids signs. We used American Standard Sign Language and taught them words like "more", "hot", "all done", "dog", "milk", "hungry", "no" and lots of others. I loved being able to communicate with my babies before they could talk. Imagine your precious little baby crying in complete misery: they know exactly what they want, but they can't get you the obtuse parent to help them! How frustrating for both of you. Then along comes the little squeezing sign "milk" and the light bulb comes on. Life just got so much better for everyone. Course now there are all kinds of studies that have been done that so signing is great for getting their verbal skills in order. For me it was more about establishing another connection with my baby. Another way to see into their precocious little minds.

My oldest child used the signs for a very short time and then began talking. For my second born, she didn't talk in full sentences until she was about two, so the signs were a huge help. I started signing to each baby around 4 months old. They in return started using the signs themselves around 6 months, but I know they understood what I was signing around 5 months. I especially loved being able to sign "no" or "stop" without having to command them verbally in a room full of people. Some signs we made up (these are called family signs). For instance, the photo above shows Super Bear, then aged 10 months using our family sign for "yea!" My kids still remember most of the signs from babyhood and sometimes use them just for fun.

One resource that really helped us learned sign language was Signing Time with Alex and Leah DVDs. They were a fun way to learn signing for me and the kids because they include music and kids themselves. One interesting aspect of watching them was seeing how different kids make the signs slightly different, just like vocal speech. Each child puts their own stamp on the sign, but mommy and daddy will understand and that's the beauty of the whole concept.

There are also a ton of free resources on the web. If I wanted to know a more obscure sign, I went to Internet to look it up. In fact, Misty from Baby Sign Language.com agreed to share a few tips with my readers. This web site is a fabulous resource to see video clips of specific signs in action.

Baby Sign Language Do's And Dont's
Misty Weaver, Baby Sign Language.com

Sign Language For Babies is a really cool way of teaching your pre-verbal child to communicate with you. It is easy to learn and – once you’ve got the hang of it – a lot of fun. To make a start all you need is to learn a some basic signs and practice, practice, practice. Here are some important dos and don’ts for baby sign language beginners…

DO start off with signs you and baby can practice every day – signs like Mommy, Daddy and Milk are great for beginners. You will need to make signing a natural part of your interaction with your baby, so finding signs you can incorporate into all your usual activities works really well.

DON’T forget to learn the signs yourself first. It’s a good idea to practice a few times before signing to your baby. Go to a baby signing class or look up some online resources to help you.

DO practice often. Once you have learned a sign, you should make this sign every time you say the word or do the action with your baby. It is important to say the word clearly, with good eye contact, while pointing to the thing or person you are describing.

DON’T use too many signs. Limit yourself to four or five signs to begin with – you can add more when you and baby are more confident.

DO sign when your baby is alert and not tired, using something which is exciting to her, such as Milk or Mommy.

DON’T forget repetition. It’s important to make the sign and say the word every time you do an action or use an object. Babies learn through repetition and it can take about two months of exposure to a sign for babies over six months to learn the sign and be ready to use it themselves.

DO use baby sign language when you’re shopping, playing, feeding – anywhere you get the chance. Be creative. Make it fun.

DON’T be results-focused. Baby Sign Language is about having fun and learning about each other. The attention and bonding you share with your baby while you are signing is as important as signing itself.

DO be patient with yourself and with baby – if you forget to sign for a day it’s OK. Start again the next day. Give yourself and baby plenty of time. Signing is worth it.

DON’T expect too much too soon. Have fun and enjoy Baby Signing, making it a part of your day. Remember, it can take at least two months of exposure to, and repetition of, a sign for a baby to learn it properly.

DO encourage all your baby’s efforts! Don’t worry if your baby hasn’t got a sign quite ‘right’. Give plenty of praise, attention and eye-contact to show her you are impressed with her efforts. When you and baby are ready you can move on to another group of signs. Encourage all the way.

Baby Love: The Real Deal on Gear

I remember the first time my husband and I went into Babies R Us to register for our baby shower. Wow. It was completely overwhelming, and not in a good way. I can make me some decisions, but that place was awful. When it's your first, how are you supposed to know what you REALLY need. I had even been reading the parenting magazines (which I'm convinced are in cahoots with the manufacturers because they say to buy everything). Truth be told a baby doesn't need much beyond a car seat, some one piece outfits and diapers. I mean, my parents put me in a dresser drawer to sleep! I did find after trial and error, certain things make life so much easier (and a wipes warmer was NOT one of them). I have put together an Amazon store with some of my favorite things and will be adding more as I think about it this month. You can click on the link down on the right side of the page to get to the actual Amazon store, but I've listed the baby/ kid stuff below. They grow so quickly, so you really don't need much for the infant stage - I promise!

PS. My husband made me say how we love zip up sleepers so it's easy to change their diaper without trying to match up all of those snaps!

A Listmania! list by A. Christian

The list author says: "We started out completely overwhelmed with all the baby gear choices when we had our first child 7 years ago. Since then, we've tried and tested all KINDS of equipment. I'm sharing this list to save you time, money and energy."


1. BABYBJÖRN Soft Bib 2 Pack - Red/Blue by BABYBJÖRN

The list author says:

"The easiest to use and clean bib for as soon as they are feeding themselves. Wash it off with soap and water and hang it to dry and it's ready for the next meal. Or you can buy a couple and run them through the dishwasher. Catches all the mess!"

2. Baby Trend Single Snap N' Go Stroller by Baby Trend

The list author says:

"I'm ridiculous about strollers. I've owned 12! Seriously. I've finally resigned myself to realize I need a couple to serve all purposes. This snap and go is perfect for using with an infant seat. It's light (recovering from a c-section that's important) and fits in all cars. No moving the baby from the car seat and gets you where you need to go. No frills needed, it's an infant after all!"



3. Maclaren Techno XT Stroller, Black by Maclaren

The list author says:

"Lightweight and portable. This is the best stroller for a child who can sit on their own. Folds up small."


4. BABYBJÖRN Little Potty - White by BABYBJÖRN

The list author says:

"No nooks and crannies that you can't clean, which are so gross. Small, can be taken on the road easily."




5. Peg-Perego Prima Pappa Best High Chair, Paloma by Peg Perego USA

The list author says:

"Highchairs take an everyday beating. The kids push it around and of course they bang and drop food all over it. This tray cover covers the WHOLE tray area so you don't have to clean two parts. The padded seat can be wiped down: dry and ready in time. We replaced the padded seat after 2 kids because it got smelly and torn. We like that you can take the five pt harness and make it a lap belt."



6. Baby Trend Diaper Champ Deluxe, Blue by Baby Trend

The list author says:

"I read the new ones aren't as good as the older ones, but I love that it uses regular trash bags and it really does keep out the smell."



7. Evenflo Triumph Advance LX Convertible Car Seat, Harbortown by Evenflo

The list author says:

"Great convertible car seat. This one transitioned us out of the infant seat (still rear facing) to a booster when the kids got too tall for this one. I would say we used it from 6 months to 3 years old.



8. Lansinoh 20265 Disposable Nursing Pads, 60-Count Boxes (Pack of 4) by Lansinoh

The list author says:

"I nursed my babies for one year. I leaked when I nursed, I leaked when the baby went too long between feedings, I leaked when I heard other people's babies cry! I tried washable and they stayed too wet, other pads shifted too much in my bra and were bulky. These are the only ones that were thin and actually worked."

9. Summer Infant Tiny Diner, Green by Summer Infant, Inc.

The list author says:

"Love this for the feeding themselves stage and on the go. It stays in our diaper bag for restaurant visits. Forget those disposable ones, what a waste. This one you can dump out the big leftover chunks and wash the smaller ones at home."



10. Solar System Placemat by Crocodile Creek by Crocodile Creek

The list author says:

"We use these at home. Thin, educational and easy to wash. The kids love all the varieties. The only thing I don't like about them is you can't scrub too hard or the design will scratch off."



11. Cloud b Twilight Constellation Night Light, Turtle by Cloud b

The list author says:

"a fun nightlight for all of my kids"




12. Graco Nautilus 3-in-1 Car Seat, Matrix by Graco Baby

The list author says:

"Perfect for the big kid in need a comfy booster seat, but this thing is heavy."



13. Fisher-Price Infant-To-Toddler Rocker, Blue/Green by Fisher-Price

The list author says:

"I love that this seat has stood the test of time through four kids. The bigger ones can even sit in it without breaking it until I spot them and remind them they are too big! Has a stabilizer for times you don't want anyone to rock the baby."


14. Safety 1st Kirby Inflatable Tub by Dorel Juvenile Group

The list author says:

"Perfect for the baby who is too big for the infant tub, but too small for the big tub. We take this when we travel too since it's inflatable."

15. Safety 1st Space Saver Fold Up Bath Tub, Blue by Dorel Juvenile Group

The list author says:

"Great first tub for the newborn and infant. No slipping, no mesh parts to wash, no stinking fabric, and it folds up for storage. Doesn't hold much water, but that's better for the baby's safety. I really LOVE this tub and we had three before we arrived on this one."



16. Fisher-Price Laugh and Learn Fun with Friends Musical Table by Fisher Price

The list author says:

"All the kids love this toy. The baby can watch it and bat at the dangling parts. Then it changes to be a piano for a sitting baby and finally a standing piano."



17. LeapFrog Learn & Groove Musical Table by LeapFrog

The list author says:

"Fun music, lots of activities, has lasted for all the kids. This toy was worth the money and the space it took to store it (the legs do come off). My highest recommendation."

18. Graco Snugride Infant Car Seat, Platinum by Graco


The list author says:

"Still the best carseat for a newborn. Love the safety ratings and the price."